Dude,to say this bluntly: You sound like a great person that could do so much better. Cuddling naked could raise the chance of having sex, so I think your request was warranted. I don't necessarily mean a shrink, but someone he can talk to. Now as an older married man, she wouldn't have to ask twice. I spent a long time afte the relationship being miserable, and not feeling like myself. I think you should have a calm, non accusatory, adult conversation with him about the situation and find out more about how he is feeling.
I dont want to jump on that bandwagon right away, It comes down to how much you care about him in other aspects.
Girls would you enjoy cuddling naked with a guy after sex?
Dude,to say this bluntly: I too am No, I don't like sleeping naked even with my boyfriend let alone just a 'friend'. He's nasty to you, not interested in affection and not willing to communicate. Falling asleep or watching a movie naked while cuddled with a naked woman is the best thing ever. Tell him no one else wanted you to date him anymore.